the team @ dmf fostercare
Fostering involves looking after babies, children or young people who need a safe, stable family environment. While fostering is temporary, placements can last anywhere from a few days to several years. Foster carers receive a generous fostering allowance, expert training, and ongoing support from the dmf fostercare team.
When babies, children or young people can’t be looked after by their own family, a local authority and fostering agency work together to provide them with someone suitable to look after them. Foster care, or fostering, is one option.
The child or young person will temporarily live with another person or family in their home. The foster carer or parent will go through an assessment process, complete specialist training courses and will be supervised, as well as receiving a weekly foster care allowance.
There are different types of foster care and they can be short-term, or can continue for years. New parents who need support with their baby can also be placed in foster care so they can learn the skills they need and gain confidence.
What is a foster carer? The roles and responsibilities of a foster parent are varied and demanding. They include:
In the UK, local authorities have responsibility for making sure that each child receives the care they need. When a child’s parents can’t meet their needs, the local authority will place them in a suitable home. In some cases, they will decide that a foster home is the best option for the child and will work with a fostering agency to match the child with a foster family. Once the child is placed in a foster home, the local authorities will continue to work with the foster carer to make sure that the child receives the support they need. They will continue to live with their foster family until they’re ready to return to their birth family or are old enough to leave care. Throughout their time in care they will usually continue to have contact with their birth family. Foster carers work as part of the wider foster care system to provide the support that children need.
In the UK, the foster care system is made up of local authorities, fostering agencies, foster carers, social workers and regulatory bodies, alongside the child’s parents or other family members.
There are many reasons why children and young people need to be looked after by foster carers, and every single case is different. The myths that ‘families are always at fault’ and that ‘foster children are always difficult’ is untrue. Some people just need more help than others. As varied as the reasons are, there are 3 broad categories.
1. Periods of instability
Some families go through periods of instability due to difficult circumstances and need time apart to find a solution. Common factors include things like mental or physical health emergencies, medical conditions, family breakdown, learning difficulties, and substance dependencies.
2. Harm from family members
Parents may have failed to meet the basic needs of their child, caused them harm, or exposed them to inappropriate behaviour or risk. Fostering removes them from this environment to a safe place where they can thrive. Abuse falls into five main groups: physical abuse, sexual abuse, emotional abuse, neglect, and exposure to domestic violence. These can all have long-lasting effects, so foster children and their carers might need additional support.
3. Special needs
The parents of children with special needs occasionally need foster carers to take over so they can take a break. Respite foster care lets parents recuperate for a weekend, a couple of weeks, or during the school holidays. Special needs fostering is a broad description – it includes learning disabilities, specific medical needs, severe disabilities and challenging behaviour. Only carers who have received specific training will be put forward for this type of care.
We don’t mind at all whether you want to call yourself a foster carer or a foster parent. Some people prefer ‘foster carer’ as they feel that the professional demands of the role aren’t quite reflected by ‘parent’. Others prefer ‘foster parent’ as they feel it reflects the nurturing side of their relationship with their foster child. Throughout this website, we use both terms. Whether you call yourself a foster carer or a foster parent, you’re a vital part of our fostering community.
Wondering if fostering could be for you? Our carers tell us fostering has changed their lives and the lives of the young people in their care. In fact, it can be one of the most rewarding experiences a person can have. It provides the opportunity to make a real and positive difference in the lives of vulnerable children and young people, while also enriching your own life and family.
Here are some of the other reasons our carers choose to foster:
team @ dmf fostercare